Hands up if you have ever worried about your child’s activity on the Internet. Did your hand go up as fast as mine? Whether you are the parent of a pre-schooler or the parent of a teenager, the issue of safety and technology is something that we will all have to deal with at some…in fact, MANY, points in time.
Technology is a wonderful thing, and I am the first to confess my love for the Web in particular. As this ‘new fangled thing’ called the World Wide Web is obviously here to stay, we, as parents, need to be aware of its benefits as well as downfalls.
Let’s take a look at the downfalls first as they are the ones we tend to hear about the most:
The Web gives children potential access to a lot of content that parents need to be aware of. From computer viruses and scams to predators and pornographic images, your child can stumble upon all kinds of material that you would not want them to be exposed to.
But let’s not forget that children can also be the ones to cause damage to others. They need to be educated on appropriate behaviours regarding cyber bullying, sexting, and material they upload to social networks and YouTube.
Now let’s think about how the Web can benefit our children:
Technology and the Web can help children grow as people as they facilitate learning about the world around them, communicating effectively, and fostering their creative skills.
This may come as a surprise but gaming has particularly become a popular method of teaching children as it helps them stay interested and active in their own learning.
So what am I getting at?
Well, what I am trying to say is that children can get the most out of technology if we, as parents, learn as much as we can about it and learn how to guide them to use it safely. There is no point in sticking our heads in the sand and pretending it doesn’t exist. If we don’t teach our children how to walk across the road safely, how will they ever learn to go out on their own? It’s the same with the Web; one day they will be on their own – with or without the knowledge we give them.
Now it’s your turn
The most important thing you can do for your child is to keep the digital conversation flowing. Give them some guidelines but also let them teach you a thing or two about technology. They will appreciate the boundaries as well as your respect.
Don’t be afraid to learn how to be involved in your kid’s digital life.